Any kinky/BDSM pet peeves? If so, what are they?
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YES. I do. This might not exactly count as a pet peeve but it's something that bugs me - I can't be bound right under my arms. I have fibro and that's one of the most sensitive places on my body; if something is touching there for too long it starts making me agitated and upset.
I also won't tolerate anybody thinking that it's okay to slap/hit me around or on the face during a scene. Nope. If a person does that, the scene is over and I'm done with them.
Another thing I honestly don't like is if a Dom tries to talk a sub into something to the point that it's no longer convincing but badgering, which can end up in the sub being placed in a situation they don't want but can't say no to because they 'agreed' to it - yes, I know, safewords, but a lot of subs out there will press it just because they feel like they've got something to prove. It's not fair to badger someone into something ( this can happen with subs talking Doms into things too, mind ) and it shows a lack of respect.
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